What is being asked of us right now?
I've been sitting with a question that feels relevant for all of us right now—whether you're part of our monthly gatherings or simply walking your own path.
What is being asked of us right now?
As we witness the state of our world—the conflicts, the divisions, the suffering playing out on screens and in streets—something deeper is also stirring. Not just geopolitics. Something ancient. Something that lives in all of us.
The wars playing out globally are bringing something to the surface of human consciousness: the victim-perpetrator wound.
And here's the tender question I'm carrying into my own life:
Where might subtle layers of this be playing out in me?
Not as blame. Not as guilt. Just as honest inquiry.
Where do I sometimes play small because it feels safer there?
Where do I unconsciously harden my heart when I've been hurt?
Where do I tell stories that make me right and someone else wrong?
These questions aren't comfortable. But they matter. Because here's what I'm learning: the same consciousness that creates miracles can also unconsciously recreate old patterns of separation—if we haven't brought light to where those patterns live in us.
This month, in my Abide community, we've been exploring co-creation—how we shape reality through our energy, attention, and beliefs. And it's been marvellous to witness the synchronicities, the shifts, the small miracles that unfold when we remember we're not alone in this creative process.
But here's the piece I feel called to share more widely:
We cannot fully co-create a new world while carrying unhealed wounds from the old one.
Not because we need to be perfect. Because we need to be conscious
The healing journey isn't about becoming someone new. It's about remembering the being we were before the wounding happened. It's about bringing compassion to the places that learned to protect, to defend, to blame—so that those places can finally soften.
And here's the most hopeful part: we get to practice this right here, in our ordinary lives.
In how we listen to someone we disagree with.
In how we repair after conflict.
In how we receive feedback without collapsing.
In how we hold ourselves and others with tenderness.
This is how we create the world we want to live in. Not someday. Not out there. Here. In our homes, our relationships, our communities. One conscious interaction at a time.
So if you're on a healing path—keep going. Keep noticing. Keep bringing light to the places that have been hiding in the shadows.
Because miracles are not interruptions of the natural order. They are the natural order—once we get our wounding out of the way.
RED TENT MOON LODGE GATHERING
A Reminder of What This Gathering Holds
What is being asked of us right now? To remember that we were never meant to do this alone.
In a world that teaches us independence, the Red Tent whispers something ancient back into our bones: we are stronger together.
This is co-creation in its most primal form—women gathering in circle, each bringing her whole self, together weaving something none could weave alone.
✨ A community-led sanctuary—not owned by one, but held by all. Each woman who enters becomes a pillar of the tent. This is co-creation in action: no single leader, no hierarchy, just sisterhood sharing the weight of holding space.
✨ A return to cyclical wisdom—honouring the moon, our bodies, the seasons within. When we align with nature's rhythms rather than fighting them, we remember we are part of something larger. The moon co-creates with us, pulling at our waters just as she pulls at the tides.
✨ Space to bring light to shadow—meeting our exiled parts with compassion. Here, we don't banish the wounded pieces. We invite them in. Because we know that healing happens not in isolation, but in the safety of sisters who've done their own work.
✨ Somatic grounding and ceremony to anchor us in the body and the earth. Before we can co-create with the unseen, we must first be fully here. In our skin. Feet on the ground. Womb space open.
✨ The red thread of matrilineage—remembering the women who came before. Their wounds flow through us. Their resilience too. When we gather, we heal not only for ourselves but for the grandmothers we never met and the daughters not yet born.
✨ Sisterhood that reminds us: we are stronger together. This is how we create the world we want to live in—not in isolation, but in circle. One woman holding another. One heart witnessing another. One generation passing the red thread to the next.
In a world that can feel unstable, the Red Tent offers something simple and profound: a place to simply be with women who see you.
Where your wounds don't need hiding.
Where your shadows don't need fixing.
Where your wholeness is witnessed, even—especially—when you can't feel it yourself.
The first circle is full. The second is waiting.
If you've been feeling the pull—the quiet nudge that says come home to the heart of the village—this is your invitation.
For those who feel the pull to go deeper...
The Red Tent holds us in circle. It reminds us we're not alone. It gives us a taste of what's possible when women gather with open hearts.
But for some of you, something deeper is stirring.
A knowing that you're being called—not just to monthly circle, but to a sustained descent. An initiation. A journey into the parts of yourself that have been waiting in the dark, ready to be reborn.
If you've been feeling that pull—the one that says there's more of me to become, more to heal, more to remember—then I want you to know about something I've been holding close.
Rebirth Your True Essence.
This is my deepest programme yet. A container for women who are ready to be held through their own initiation into their most authentic feminine essence.
Not a quick fix.
Not another course to consume.
A journey
Together, we'll walk into the places you've been too afraid to go alone. The wounds that shaped you. The patterns that have been running in the background. The original form you came here to embody—before the world told you to shrink, to perform, to people-please your way into belonging.
This is co-creation at its most intimate level—you and me, and the divine feminine herself, working together to resurrect what was always there.
Because here's what I know: the wounds are being made conscious so that we can resurrect our original form.
And some of us are ready for that resurrection now.
If that's you—if something in your chest just flickered with recognition—then let's talk.
The Red Tent holds the village.
Rebirth Your True Essence holds your initiation.
Both have their place. Both are sacred. The question isn't which is better—it's what are you ready for?
With you on the path,